Saturday, April 12, 2003

"There are some people who meet that somebody that they can never stop loving, no matter how hard they try.
I wouldn't expect you to understand that, or even believe it, but trust me, there are some love that don't go away.
And maybe that makes them crazy, but we should all be lucky to end up with that somebody who has a little of that insanity.
Somebody who never lets go. Somebody who cherishes you forever."

---Ally Mc Beal


I know it's a cornball thing, but love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without.
If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? I say fall head over heels.
Find someone you love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back.
And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart...
run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back.
Because the truth is, there is no sense living your life without this.
To make the journey and not fall deeply in love -- well, you haven't lived a life at all.
You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived...

Stay open. Who knows? Lightning could strike.

---MEET JOE BLACK Man:


"It's funny how we set qualifications for the right person to love
while at the back of our minds we know that the person we trully love will always be an exception"

---Ally McBeal


"I love that you get cold when its 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich.
I love that you get a little crinkle in your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts.
I love that after I spend a day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes.
and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night.
And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's new year's eve.
I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody,
you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible
."

---WHEN HARRY MET SALLY


If two people love each other, but just cant seem to put things together, when would that point be..
when one would say enough is enough? NEVER.

---THE MEXICAN

Wednesday, April 02, 2003

YOU HAVE WEALTH UNDER YOUR NOSE

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Bo, this girl in my office is a real looker," many a
husband will say. "But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm head over heels with her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender-- so many things that my wife has not."
Sure.

Guys, trust me on this. Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman who will be more charming. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Be a better cook. Have greater sex appeal. Be a more efficient housekeeper. And
you will find a woman who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your wife ever did.

Because no wife is perfect.
Because a wife will only have 90% of what you're looking for.
So adultery takes place when a husband looks for the missing 10%.

Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: "I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha..." Or because your wife is a homebody
in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your wife is the quiet type (a rare find), your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host like Oprah.

But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have.
Don't throw away the 90% that you already have!
That's not all. Add to your wife's 90% the 1000% that represents all
the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have
weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple.The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have. But I'm not just talking about marriage.I'm talking about life!

About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your prayer groups. About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? "They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!" I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip!

Don't live your life like that.
Forget about what the world says is first class.
(Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class --
because they're not riding in a private Lear Jet?)

My main message: If you start thanking God for what you have right now, wherever you are is first class! You have wealth under your nose.

Thank Him.

By Bo Sanchez From his book: You Have the Power to Create